Playing The “Inner” Game Of Success

Your outside reality is created by your inner beliefs.

If what you’re doing right now is not creating the level of success you want, then you MUST change what you are doing. Until you learn how to master the “inner” game of success, all of the other business building and personal development techniques in the world will not help you reach your goals.

So what do you do?  Where do you turn?

How do you begin the process of mastering the rules to the “inner” game of success?

Here are three suggested resources:

  • Building Self Confidence by Hani Al-Qasem
  • Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill
  • Personal Journal Journal about your journey of development

As you begin the journey of enlightening your inner perspective, one key to being successful is to make a personal commitment to your dreams and goals. Once you have a clear vision of where you want to go with your journey – then you must make a personal commitment to that vision. Commit in the same way you would make a promise to someone else you love.

Use the resources above and get started immediately. Don’t delay!

The world awaits your greatness!

Until next time…

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10 Tips For Turning Dreams Into Reality

Dreams – the big and small stuff you want to accomplish in your life – are often not perceived as urgent, yet they are very important.

Do you dream?

So many of us don’t treat our own dreams with respect – like we honor and support the dreams of others.

Why is that?

Here are 10 simple tips for turning YOUR dreams into reality:

  1. Make time each day to write down your dreams.
  2. Break down those dreams in to steps, place dates on these steps and turn (or integrate) those steps in to individual business plans.
  3. Read your dreams/goals at least once a day with passion and belief in their realization
  4. Connect and share your dreams with someone – a buddy – who has your best interest at heart. Ask them to hold you accountable – in a loving way – for succeeding.
  5. Read at least 10 pages of your favorite personal development book every day.
  6. Exercise at least three times each week. Exercising allows fresh oxygen to your body feeds your inner desire to be better
  7. Become informed about dieting and develop healthy eating habits
  8. Keep in mind that you are worthy to accomplish your dreams. Many people will not pursue their dreams because they don’t feel that they are worth the effort.
  9. Don’t be afraid to fail for it is through trial and error that you will find your greatness.
  10. Finally, live YOUR dreams – not those of others. Your dreams deserve to be realized as much as anyone.

Letting Go and Weight Loss – The Connection

The Overall Story
I had a client who was really trying hard to lose weight. She counted calories. She had tried all of the most popular weight loss programs out there. She was tired, ragged, and worn out in her attempt to find something that worked. Every program she tried – in the long run, just didn’t work.

A couple of weight loss programs worked at first, but then – after a month or two – she just gained the weight right back. And with some of the programs, she not only gained what she had loss right back, she gained even more weight. Sheesh! She was frustrated to no end.

ONE CHALLENGE
One of the reasons for her inability to lose weight was because of her mindset. In her minds eye, she saw herself having challenges. She never created an image of herself – getting thinner. She had no vision of herself losing the weight she wanted. She did not even have an image of her being successful in the process – in any way. The vision she had was of her struggling to lose weight. She saw herself not losing weight. She had no clear vision of how she would look after losing weight. THEREFORE, the decisions that she made, subconsciously, were centered around NOT losing weight and failing in the weight loss programs that she tried. This was her vision.

ONE SOLUTION
Through a coached visioning exercise – she was able to create a NEW vision of herself. One that allowed her to, in her mind’s eye, see herself succeeding. In her vision she was

  • thinner
  • happy
  • stress free
  • eating what she wanted
  • eating when she wanted
  • more attractive and appealing to her husband (he could not keep his hands off her)
  • was a source of inspiration to her friends and family
  • felt like the queen weight loss expert

We used a picture from her past in the visioning exercise. Afterward she posted copies of the picture – in her house, car, office, bathroom, on the fridge and oven doors, and by the door going out to the garage. We had to work hard at her not hating the pictures, but loving them.

Sometimes we get angry at pictures from the past that remind us of what we DO NOT HAVE. That anger creates blockage to getting what we want. Its best to love that part of your past. LET GO OF THE ANGER.

LOVE who you are today, by embracing you were yesterday.

You can do this…
Get informed about weight loss through fat burning methods.

Until The Nest Post… take care.

Darren


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